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Background: Attention-deficit/hyperactivity disorder (ADHD) affects 6.3% of Chinese children, but only 10% are diagnosed, as diagnosis is hindered by low awareness and lack of culturally adapted, objective tools. Existing continuous performance tests are unimodal and lack validity. Objective: This study aimed to conduct an initial evaluation of the diagnostic discrimination of BOKE STARS (Sustained Task and Attention Response Screening), a culturally adapted bimodal continuous performance test, for distinguishing children with ADHD from typically developing children in a Chinese clinical setting. Methods: In this prospective, single-center diagnostic accuracy study with a case-control design, 100 children aged 6 to 12 years (n=50 with ADHD and n=50 controls) were recruited at Xinhua Hospital between January and May 2024. Parents completed the Swanson, Nolan, and Pelham Rating Scale–fourth version (SNAP-IV), and children completed the BOKE STARS assessment on a tablet device under standardized conditions. Group comparisons were conducted using independent-sample 2-tailed tests or Mann-Whitney tests, as appropriate. Receiver operating characteristic (ROC) curve analysis was performed in the full case-control sample to assess diagnostic discrimination. Sensitivity and specificity were reported descriptively across ROC-derived cutoffs; these cutoffs were not interpreted as clinically validated diagnostic thresholds. Secondary exploratory analyses included comparisons among ADHD subtypes and correlations between BOKE STARS indices and parent-reported SNAP-IV symptom severity scores. Results: Compared with controls, children with ADHD performed significantly worse on all major BOKE STARS indices, including errors of omission, errors of commission, reaction time, reaction time variability (RTV), discrimination prime, and total score. In the full case-control sample, the total score showed the strongest diagnostic discrimination (area under the ROC curve [AUC] 0.962, 95% CI 0.931-0.992), followed by RTV (AUC 0.919, 95% CI 0.867-0.971), errors of omission (AUC 0.884, 95% CI 0.818-0.950), and discrimination prime (AUC 0.819, 95% CI 0.737-0.900). Errors of commission (AUC 0.689, 95% CI 0.585-0.792) and reaction time (AUC 0.634, 95% CI 0.524-0.743) showed comparatively weaker discrimination. No significant differences were observed among ADHD subtypes. Several BOKE STARS indices were modestly correlated with SNAP-IV inattention and hyperactivity or impulsivity scores. Conclusions: BOKE STARS showed promising preliminary diagnostic discrimination for identifying Chinese children with ADHD in this case-control sample, with the total score and RTV showing the strongest discriminatory performance. However, because the case-control design artificially fixed the ratio of ADHD cases to controls, diagnostic performance estimates and exploratory cutoffs should be interpreted cautiously and should not be considered representative of real-world clinical diagnostic performance. BOKE STARS may serve as an adjunctive assessment tool to complement clinical interviews and caregiver-reported rating scales, but further external validation in larger and clinically heterogeneous populations is required before broader clinical implementation.
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Parents often emphasize to children the importance of respecting others’ boundaries — don’t tickle another kid if they say they don’t like it, for example. Don’t kiss someone unless they welcome it. But within the family, we can fail to notice our own difficulty setting and respecting boundaries with our children, especially emotional boundaries.
Emotional boundaries refer to an individual’s sense of autonomy and ability to control how they think, feel, and engage with others. Those boundaries are crossed either when you try to control someone else’s thoughts or feelings or they try to control yours.
Difficulty setting your own and respecting others’ emotional boundaries often comes from a place of care and concern. Parents are usually concerned that their child is not going to make safe choices or are trying to protect their child from distressing emotions. But the intrusion can have a negative impact on children’s emotional development as well as parents’ mental health, especially when it’s done repeatedly. Everyone has boundaries, even parents, and it’s important for kids to learn that.
Parents can inadvertently encroach on their child’s right to their own thoughts and feelings through:
Letting kids change your own values, thoughts, and feelings can also be unhealthy. Here are some common ways in which parents fail to set their own boundaries:
There are specific circumstances that can make it difficult for a parent to know where the appropriate boundaries are. They include a child’s late development, psychiatric challenges, and history of unsafe choices. For example, a child may have delays in language, executive functioning, or social or emotional skills. These things can make it challenging to determine how involved you need to be in your child’s daily life and how much independence they can handle.
Once you have recognized the challenges in respecting your child’s boundaries and protecting your own, the next step is to figure out what those boundaries are.
When kids want more independence than you are sure they are ready to handle, identifying steps toward their goal can be effective. Giving them opportunities to show maturity, with success at one step leading to more responsibility, can help you trust your child with greater independence. What can your kids show you that will help you feel confident in their ability to manage their emotions themselves or make well thought-out decisions?
Kids also need to recognize that they sometimes overestimate their own abilities, that there are times they have not assessed risk accurately and still need their parents. It is important to teach your child that you should be alerted if they are experiencing something that is unsafe or concerning (such as a friend talking about suicide or sharing an inappropriate photo). Discussions with your kid can sort out how to work toward new milestones and help everybody feel confident that they have the skills to do it.
Modeling a healthy respect for boundaries will set your child up to establish their own and respect others’ boundaries throughout their life.
Emotional boundaries are the limits that protect each person’s right to their own thoughts, feelings, values, and decisions. In families, healthy boundaries allow children to develop independence while helping parents avoid taking responsibility for emotions or choices that belong to their child.
Healthy emotional boundaries support children’s confidence, autonomy, and ability to solve problems on their own. They also protect parents’ well-being by preventing them from becoming overly responsible for their child’s feelings, worries, or decisions.
Common signs include getting overly involved in a child’s friendships or school life, refusing age-appropriate privacy, sharing personal information without permission, or telling a child what they should think or feel. While these behaviors often come from a place of love and concern, they can undermine a child’s confidence and independence.
Parents can start by considering where their child is developmentally and what level of support versus independence is appropriate. A good guideline is to provide enough structure to keep children safe while gradually giving them more responsibility and privacy as they demonstrate readiness.
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